A Cheating Girlfriend ?

Sa pag-ibig, kaming mga kalalakihan ay meron reputation sa mga babae as "Cheaters" ngunit hindi nyo ba alam na may mga mas worst pa pala sa amin!? A friend of mine needs help and he wrote this letter sa isang forum. "nag confess saakin ang gf ko na nakipag 1 nyt stand sya sa isang lalakeng ilang minuto lng nya nakilala... what are her reasons? 1. lasing daw sya.... 2. subrang dami daw problema niya... nasaktan ako masyado di ko matangap ang ginawa nya..... kahit kailan di ko ginawang makipag 1 nyt stand sa ibang babae dahil mahal n mahal ko sya... ano sa tingin nyo dapat ko gawin... forget her? kill her? or what... advise nmn jan mga puppy.... ngayun continue pa din ang communication namin.." Mahirap talaga kapag ganyan ang situation mo... masakit kung ikaw ang lulugar sa kalagayan niya and sobrang lame ng reason ng girl. Anyways...these are the things na need natin malaman.. Hanapin mo yung source ng information na nakuha mo. Narinig mo ba to sa isang friend mo? or friend niya? possible na sinisira din kayo ng ibang tao. Make sure na tama talaga ang source mo. Pagdating sa affection, gusto ito ng isang babae. Usually enjoy siya kapag magkaholding hands kayo, kissing, cuddling. Ngunit kapag malamig na sha, mag-iiba ang mga bagay na to. Kapag sinabi mo bang "i love you", sumasagot ba sha? look at her face. observe! Kapag hawak mo ang kanyang mga kamay.. Does she try to pull it away? Dude, if your girl is avoiding your affection, this is a strong sign that she's cheating. Does she looks nervous when you say.. "we need to talk" or when you're with her ? Text ba sha ng text lagi ? try mo, use a different celphone number and ask her is she's single. I have a friend na ginawa yan before.. and nasaktan talaga siya nung sinabi ng girlfriend nya na. "uu, single akoh~" Bitch... "Hey, nanlalake ka ba? " or "You wouldn't happen to be cheating on me, would you?". That's a bad move. Why? Dalawa lang pwede mangyari.. If she's really cheating on you, kahit ano mangyari, idedeny nya yan. "NO" ang sagot nyan pare ko. Protocol sa mga cheaters ang pagde~deny. Well.. If not, iisipin nya na wala kang tiwala sa kanya and it might turn into a break up. However, This is the BEST way to confront her.. as long as willing ka mag take ng risk at ayaw mo pa patagalin pa. The more na mag spend kayo ng time sa isa't isa mas lalong masakit lang. Naglolokohan lang kayo eh! Just talk to her nicely, be calm. Kahit ano mangyari, wag na wag mo sasaktan ang isang babae. verbal or physical. In the end, its up to you if you'll forgive her and stay with her or...break up with her. Again, if willing ka pa rin mag take ng risk (kahit nahuli mo na siya pero mahal mo pa rin) then go ! give her another chance. But, sa ganyang situation ng friend ko, malabo. I dont think i can forgive her.. sobrang lame ng excuse. Problems?! You can talk about it, right? I'll just let her go and find someone else who is worthy. These are just my honest opinions. I learned a long time ago there's no sense getting all riled up every time a bunch of idiots give you a hard time. In the end, the universe tends to unfold as it should. H&K:GtWC -END-